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9:37pm Thursday 3rd July 2008
THE sister of a teenager stabbed to death has called for the re-introduction of national service.
Brooke Kinsella, 25, an actress and drama teacher in Benfleet, said knife amnesties are not enough to tackle street violence and young men should be called-up if they persist in using weapons.
Her brother Ben, 16, died in hospital on Sunday after being stabbed outside a pub in Holloway, North London.
Miss Kinsella, who teaches at the Future Faces Theatre School, based at Appleton School, said: "If these young boys want to pick up a weapon and fight then let them go over to national service and fight for a good cause."
The actress, one of four siblings, revealed her brother had been threatened with a knife once in the past, but had managed to calm the situation down.
She said: "He was scared. He sat down at the time and said, that was the scariest thing', but he just carried on."
In an essay Ben had written, he was the main character who was stabbed, but forgave his killer.
Miss Kinsella, who played Kelly Taylor in EastEnders, said: "It's six lives that have been taken.
"At the moment I can't bring myself to forgive what they've done to my mum and dad."
She also said her "biggest wish" now is for witnesses to come forward in the hunt for her brother's killer.
Friends and family of Ben have set up a fund and website in his memory to raise awareness of the effects of gun and knife crime.
His grieving relatives have turned to the internet to urge all teenagers to "put down their knives and weapons and think about the pain and suffering they will cause".
The popular GCSE student became the 17th teenager to die violently in the capital this year.
Ben's family, led by Brooke, plan to use donations to the Ben Kinsella fund to hold events to raise the profile of the problem of weapons on the streets.
The website address is www.benkinsella.org.uk Three young men, two aged 18 and one aged 19, are in custody after being arrested by detectives investigating the murder.
152, Rochford says...
8:47am Thu 3 Jul 08
Ethan, UK says...
9:17am Thu 3 Jul 08
Amy, Laindon says...
9:21am Thu 3 Jul 08
Adam Andrews, Southend says...
9:27am Thu 3 Jul 08
Dave H, Southend says...
9:30am Thu 3 Jul 08
Claire, Benfleet says...
9:30am Thu 3 Jul 08
Tony Winchester, Wos says...
9:46am Thu 3 Jul 08
Helen, Essex says...
9:48am Thu 3 Jul 08
ex3para, canvey says...
9:52am Thu 3 Jul 08
Adam, Westcliff-on-Sea says...
9:53am Thu 3 Jul 08
Linda, Basildon says...
9:56am Thu 3 Jul 08
Les, Basildon says...
10:03am Thu 3 Jul 08
Les, Basildon says...
10:26am Thu 3 Jul 08
The Vicar, Basildon says...
11:00am Thu 3 Jul 08
Aint it just the truth, says...
11:26am Thu 3 Jul 08
The Vicar, Basildon says...
11:35am Thu 3 Jul 08
Robbo, says...
11:56am Thu 3 Jul 08
Margaret Stoll, Rochford says...
12:05pm Thu 3 Jul 08
linda, southend says...
12:06pm Thu 3 Jul 08
The Vicar wrote:oh do behave. She is an actreaa for goodness sake - just doing a job. Perhaps Eastenders then is indicative of real life? Is that what you are saying?
Let's not also forget that Eastenders hardly sets a good example to young people does it? It's all drink, drink, drink, fight, fight, fight on that show. How do characters on Eastenders solve their disputes? Fighting and killing other characters.
The Vicar, Basildon says...
12:20pm Thu 3 Jul 08
linda wrote:While I feel sorry for her and her family, a violent society reared on pre-watershed violence must have some effect on the young idiots in this dump of a country. And it's not just to make money for the BBC with their "Action Line." Aren't the producers of Eastenders always carping on about how "realistic" their show is?
The Vicar wrote: Let's not also forget that Eastenders hardly sets a good example to young people does it? It's all drink, drink, drink, fight, fight, fight on that show. How do characters on Eastenders solve their disputes? Fighting and killing other characters.oh do behave. She is an actreaa for goodness sake - just doing a job. Perhaps Eastenders then is indicative of real life? Is that what you are saying?
Anon, Rayleigh says...
12:45pm Thu 3 Jul 08
Trunkymunghound, Essex says...
1:10pm Thu 3 Jul 08
linda wrote:A fan then eh Linda?( and probably emmerdale, corrie, bill etc etc)
The Vicar wrote: Let's not also forget that Eastenders hardly sets a good example to young people does it? It's all drink, drink, drink, fight, fight, fight on that show. How do characters on Eastenders solve their disputes? Fighting and killing other characters.oh do behave. She is an actreaa for goodness sake - just doing a job. Perhaps Eastenders then is indicative of real life? Is that what you are saying?
Firestorm, Southend says...
1:25pm Thu 3 Jul 08
patriot, westcliff says...
1:47pm Thu 3 Jul 08
marobby, says...
2:53pm Thu 3 Jul 08
James, Southend says...
3:00pm Thu 3 Jul 08
Gill Butcher, Basildon says...
4:21pm Thu 3 Jul 08
Kizzy, Canvey says...
4:22pm Thu 3 Jul 08
E, Essex says...
4:25pm Thu 3 Jul 08
patriot, westcliff says...
4:37pm Thu 3 Jul 08
marobby wrote:we are always hearing of over stretched public serives if every young person did their bit it would ease that problem. During the last national service era there was still regular service men and women no grumbles about taking their jobs
so, we\'ll put all the nasty people in the army, and all the nice ones can empty bins and look after the old folk, nurse and put out fires, but aren\'t those jobs already being taken care of ?
Tony, says...
4:55pm Thu 3 Jul 08
Dave H wrote:I think she was talking about the little scumbags who go around thinking it is clever to use knives and guns. Also if you were to get out a bit more you would find that the percentage of people who do not go around stabbing others is a lot less than 99.99%.
As 99.99% of young people don't go around stabbing people, it's hardly fair to force them into the army, is it?
taz, pitsea says...
5:31pm Thu 3 Jul 08
James, Southend says...
6:08pm Thu 3 Jul 08
Margaret Stoll, Rochford says...
6:30pm Thu 3 Jul 08
Kizzy wrote:This idea has been tried. In the late 1970s/early 1980s there were these 'boot-camp' style YOIs. The then Home Secretary, one William Whitelaw, advocated the 'short sharp shock' approach.
<b> What we need is a boot camp style young offenders unit. They are put straight in to serve their time and it is run ARMY-LIKE - no mucking about and then then should have to work chain gang style on tidying up the streets, graffitti removing, in bright orange suits so everybody knows what these people are.</b>
Ivanna Goodhump, says...
6:37pm Thu 3 Jul 08
taz, pitsea says...
7:23pm Thu 3 Jul 08
APR, Benfleet says...
7:51pm Thu 3 Jul 08
paula, grays says...
8:57pm Thu 3 Jul 08
Paul, Canvey Island says...
9:08pm Thu 3 Jul 08
Terry, says...
9:58pm Thu 3 Jul 08
Margaret Stoll wrote:You have to go back to the 50's to have a system that worked, plenty of stodgy food and a beating if they stepped out of line. The soft seventies idea of a "boot camp" was a joke
Kizzy wrote: <b> What we need is a boot camp style young offenders unit. They are put straight in to serve their time and it is run ARMY-LIKE - no mucking about and then then should have to work chain gang style on tidying up the streets, graffitti removing, in bright orange suits so everybody knows what these people are.</b>This idea has been tried. In the late 1970s/early 1980s there were these 'boot-camp' style YOIs. The then Home Secretary, one William Whitelaw, advocated the 'short sharp shock' approach. I have heard it said that all it did was to produce a generation of fit, strong, active young burglars.
Brian Mendes, Ontario Canada says...
1:33am Fri 4 Jul 08
Why are we listening to some bit-part actress?, Get A Grip says...
1:52am Fri 4 Jul 08
Steve, Leigh says...
11:21am Fri 4 Jul 08
debbie, basildon says...
2:30pm Fri 4 Jul 08
mike, southend says...
3:04pm Fri 4 Jul 08
Tony, says...
5:54pm Fri 4 Jul 08
You're stupid wrote:No, the little scumbags who go around shooting, stabbing and kicking people to death, you must be one of them. Don't like to hear what people think of you do you.
Tony wrote:What, like soldiers? You people are f u c king stupid.Dave H wrote: As 99.99% of young people don't go around stabbing people, it's hardly fair to force them into the army, is it?I think she was talking about the little scumbags who go around thinking it is clever to use knives and guns. Also if you were to get out a bit more you would find that the percentage of people who do not go around stabbing others is a lot less than 99.99%.
Dave, says...
5:57pm Fri 4 Jul 08
Tony wrote:I think 'you're stupid', good name by the way, would benefit from a spending some time in the borstals they had in the 40's and 50's.
You're stupid wrote:No, the little scumbags who go around shooting, stabbing and kicking people to death, you must be one of them. Don't like to hear what people think of you do you.Tony wrote:What, like soldiers? You people are f u c king stupid.Dave H wrote: As 99.99% of young people don't go around stabbing people, it's hardly fair to force them into the army, is it?I think she was talking about the little scumbags who go around thinking it is clever to use knives and guns. Also if you were to get out a bit more you would find that the percentage of people who do not go around stabbing others is a lot less than 99.99%.
shallotman, Basildon says...
6:41pm Fri 4 Jul 08
Happy Chappy, Basil - on the - Don says...
7:01pm Fri 4 Jul 08
Hugh, Canvey Island says...
7:26pm Fri 4 Jul 08
Bosniavet, Essex says...
10:16pm Fri 4 Jul 08
Anon wrote:Well, Anon, maybe you should just enlist in the regular or volunteer reserve element of HM Forces if you are that keen to serve.
What we are all forgeting here is that someone has lost a life due to mindless violence, you are all quick to come on here and joke about tv shows and what that portrays and everything else but the main point is......someone has lost a life National Service is a great idea, im a law abiding citizen and i am 22 if i had to do National Service i would welcome it with open arms.
cllr neville watson, canvey island says...
9:19pm Sat 5 Jul 08
You're still stupid, And tedious to boot says...
12:36am Sun 6 Jul 08
Hugh wrote:LOL. Could you be a little more pompous do you think?
'You're stupid' epitomises the level of intelligence required to actually put forward a decent posting on such a Anti Social subject, (no intelligence at all), and it shows in what has been written.
It also highlights his/her lack of ability and education in not being able to express oneself without recourse to Foul and Abusive language. What a shame.
John, says...
11:50am Sun 6 Jul 08
You're still stupid wrote:It's true though 'You're still stupid', very apt name.
Hugh wrote: 'You're stupid' epitomises the level of intelligence required to actually put forward a decent posting on such a Anti Social subject, (no intelligence at all), and it shows in what has been written. It also highlights his/her lack of ability and education in not being able to express oneself without recourse to Foul and Abusive language. What a shame.LOL. Could you be a little more pompous do you think?
Les, Basildon says...
12:27pm Sun 6 Jul 08
Bosniavet, Westcliff says...
8:47pm Sun 6 Jul 08
Les, Basildon says...
10:42pm Sun 6 Jul 08
You're still stupid, And tedious to boot says...
10:15pm Thu 10 Jul 08
It's true though 'You're still stupid', very apt name.Awwwwwwww fanks John. Big kiss.
John, says...
9:53am Sun 13 Jul 08
You're still stupid wrote:As I said before, a apt name. Did you have to look 'apt' up in a dictionary, how long did it take for you to work out how to use a dictionary.
It's true though 'You're still stupid', very apt name.Awwwwwwww fanks John. Big kiss.
You're still stupid, AND, probably the saddest f ucker on the Echo site yet John. Nice one! says...
8:26pm Sun 13 Jul 08
John wrote:'Apt'? Short for 'apartment' innit John?
You\'re still stupid wrote:As I said before, a apt name. Did you have to look \'apt\' up in a dictionary, how long did it take for you to work out how to use a dictionary.
It\'s true though \'You\'re still stupid\', very apt name.Awwwwwwww fanks John. Big kiss.
Tony, says...
10:06pm Sun 13 Jul 08
You're still stupid, AND wrote:It's better to keep quiet and let people think you are an idiot then open you mouth and prove it.
John wrote:'Apt'? Short for 'apartment' innit John? Lotsa love you gorgeous thing you.You\'re still stupid wrote:As I said before, a apt name. Did you have to look \'apt\' up in a dictionary, how long did it take for you to work out how to use a dictionary.It\'s true though \'You\'re still stupid\', very apt name.Awwwwwwww fanks John. Big kiss.
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152, Rochford says...
8:45am Thu 3 Jul 08
Largely they are under 18 so could not be made to fight in any wars anyway.
Brooke makes the assumption that these people will be as 'brave' on the battlefield facing real danger as they are 'brave' when they strut about the street with their knives enforcing their gang culture.
Even if the army did take them on, many would fail the drugs test anyway.