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Angry mum slams dead baby jokes on Facebook
6:00am Sunday 5th August 2012 in News By Chloe Chapman
A DISTRESSED mum has launched a campaign to get an offensive Facebook group closed down. Stacey Butler, 23, of Silverdale Avenue, Westcliff , was horrified when she stumbled across Dead Baby Jokes. The group, which encourages members to post offensive jokes with no boundaries on bad taste, racism or religion, has more than 30,000 likes. Miss Butler, who has three and two- year-old sons, said: “It kept coming up on my Facebook feed because so many people were clicking on it. “Most people are just going on it to have a look, like I did, but because of that, it seems like it’s a really popular group. Everyone I’ve spoken to is disgusted by it.” On the description page, its unknown founders explain: “Dead Baby Jokes contains highly-offensive humour and should not be viewed by individuals who are easily offended by tasteless humour. “We here at Dead Baby Jokes take the safety of your children to heart, and do not, in any way, condone the killing of babies, or any other manner in which harm could come to a child.” As well as a stream of abortion and miscarriage jokes, the Facebook page has also been inundated with comments from angry posters. Miss Butler is calling for other parents across south Essex to follow in her footsteps by reporting offensive material to Facebook administrators. She said: “Loads of my friends and I have reported it, but nothing has been done. We just need to get the message out there about how horrible this group is. “The things that have been posted are so vile. It is really upsetting for mums and dads, especially those who have lost their children.” In a statement, Facebook said: “We take our Statement of Rights and Responsibilities very seriously and react quickly to remove reported content that violates our policies. “In general, groups devoted to jokes, even disgusting and distasteful ones, do not violate our policies. Where these groups make real threats or statements of hate, however, we will remove them.”
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Comments (130)
7:23am Sun 5 Aug 12
John the resonator says...
And yet the policy toward individuals is different and quite mild pictures of, say a breast or bum exposed on a holiday beach will be deleted if someone complains about it.
There is/was also a page devoted to rape jokes with many complaints but these were outweighed by enthusiastic contributors adding the latest 'joke.'
7:46am Sun 5 Aug 12
Saxonpride says...
What a Nazi. Don't dictate to me what I can and can't look at, we fought a whole war to stop buttoned down little fascists like you.
8:00am Sun 5 Aug 12
BIRLIS says...
8:17am Sun 5 Aug 12
al coniston says...
It's all in the title of the page, so if you are of a delicate nature, don't look any further - you brought your'distress' on yourself by having a look !!
8:52am Sun 5 Aug 12
Brunning999 says...
As an example Hindley and Brady plus many more.
That is why prisons are full of sick and dangerous people, who in my opinion should remain there forever.
There is a real need to recognise, and avoid these low life scum bags in every aspect of your life.
That is why some people should stop being so naive and stop trying to rehabilitate sickos.
Catch them and lock them away forever.
9:15am Sun 5 Aug 12
freedomofspeech1962 says...
10:02am Sun 5 Aug 12
rich.carol says...
10:45am Sun 5 Aug 12
John the resonator says...
11:13am Sun 5 Aug 12
notinwestcliffanymore says...
11:13am Sun 5 Aug 12
rich.carol says...
11:18am Sun 5 Aug 12
The Cater Wood Creeper says...
Why anyone above the age of about 16 with any degree of intelligence would have the setting such that all and sundry can view and comment on their webspace (whatever it's called) is beyond me. It'stantamount to an invitation for all the nastiness that we hear about on a more regular basis these days.
Certain organisations that actively promote faecesbook and twatter don't help either.
It's become almost mandatory to have an account with all of these anti social network sites these days.
Buck the system and think or yourselves and if, like me, you can't be bothered with it, don't feel pressure frm your peers and anyone else to force you into participating.
If you don't want to read crap, don't sign up for it.....
11:35am Sun 5 Aug 12
rich.carol says...
What you say is 100% CORRECT ! No one is forced to sign up
2:15pm Sun 5 Aug 12
freedomofspeech1962 says...
Christina Martinovic
who ever thinks this is funny will burn for this! Take my word. whom ever posts nasty things about children or babies will loose one of their own! Mark my words .
_____
As I said, the hysterical overreaction to what are just stupid jokes is what SHOULD be the news story.
2:17pm Sun 5 Aug 12
freedomofspeech1962 says...
Sarah Louise
I swear to fukin god this is the sickest thing iv seen u horrible nasty bastad u whoeever as set this page up needs **** shooting straight in the head!! I'm disgusted low life pieces of ****!
3:16pm Sun 5 Aug 12
emcee says...
3:30pm Sun 5 Aug 12
freedomofspeech1962 says...
A bit trickier - and less headline grabbing - when dealing with more weighty issues like defending freedom of speech.
3:40pm Sun 5 Aug 12
SpaffSpiff84 says...
3:55pm Sun 5 Aug 12
asbo uncut says...
4:59pm Sun 5 Aug 12
APR says...
What do you expect from Facebook ?
I wouldn't touch it with a barge pole.
5:51pm Sun 5 Aug 12
Saxonpride says...
6:10pm Sun 5 Aug 12
EcoPatriot says...
I have never found these types of jokes funny but I defend the right for them to be told and read. If you don't like them, don't read them. You have NO right to tell others what they can or cannot read. Imagine if somebody said you HAD to read something...It's the same thing.
7:32pm Sun 5 Aug 12
jax punx says...
7:59pm Sun 5 Aug 12
Kim Gandy says...
8:04pm Sun 5 Aug 12
freedomofspeech1962 says...
Do you condone the death threats that are being made? Some of the members of the page are teenagers themselves. Is it acceptable for a supposedly grown man to threaten 15 year old girl with rape and murder just because she posted a bad taste joke?
8:04pm Sun 5 Aug 12
freedomofspeech1962 says...
Do you condone the death threats that are being made? Some of the members of the page are teenagers themselves. Is it acceptable for a supposedly grown man to threaten 15 year old girl with rape and murder just because she posted a bad taste joke?
8:27pm Sun 5 Aug 12
jax punx says...
8:55pm Sun 5 Aug 12
jax punx says...
9:09pm Sun 5 Aug 12
APR says...
I don't use Facebook so haven't seen these jokes or photos, and have no intention of looking for them. Whether they are genuine or not.
If anyone else wants to, it's up to them.
9:34pm Sun 5 Aug 12
jax punx says...
9:34pm Sun 5 Aug 12
jax punx says...
9:34pm Sun 5 Aug 12
jax punx says...
9:34pm Sun 5 Aug 12
jax punx says...
9:34pm Sun 5 Aug 12
jax punx says...
9:45pm Sun 5 Aug 12
jax punx says...
9:49pm Sun 5 Aug 12
jax punx says...
9:57pm Sun 5 Aug 12
Saxonpride says...
I'm sure it makes it easier for you to sleep at night as you help to curtail the freedoms of others, I'm sure being the moral guardian of us ignorant commoners really helps you rest easy.
11:33pm Sun 5 Aug 12
benfleet101 says...
Too many people condemn facebook without really knowing much about it, or taking the time to find out. . I suggest you find out a wee bit about it's background and the founder before making your judgement on morality.
On your account, you only see what you choose to see, and speak to who you choose to speak to and your content needs building and develops over time. You can’t judge it on a couple of weeks as you won’t have built anything tailored to you.
Yes, there are people who feel the need to announce every time they sneeze and I am sorry if that is what you may find your friends doing, mine tend to post thing of a slightly more intellectual or political nature.
It allows me to keep in touch with the daily lives of relatives abroad I would otherwise never see, and the older generation in our family have accounts and can do the same, it makes them feel connected.
Today I heard of the shooting in the Sikh Temple in America before it was broadcast on the BBC - where? On Facebook.
11:37pm Sun 5 Aug 12
John the resonator says...
I don't see it so much as curtailing people's freedoms because the point has already been made that some of the participants are very young and therefore less likely to be able to make informed decisions about what the are reading and seeing and how they are responding. I would be in favour of protecting them even at the expense of curtailing someone's right to post vile images or jokes. It is a balance but the young and vulnerable win every time in my book.
Thanks jax punx for your posts, I have also on occasion fallen into the trap of multiple posting until I learned to ignore those error messages and wait back a mo.
12:59am Mon 6 Aug 12
E-Types. says...
FB hosts that rubbish the Echo hosts its own.
1:02am Mon 6 Aug 12
E-Types. says...
1:44am Mon 6 Aug 12
E-Types. says...
You post is rather confusing! Are you stating that racial abuse should be considered 'freedom of speech' but vile 'jokes' about children shouldn't?
Both are abhorrent!
2:07am Mon 6 Aug 12
E-Types. says...
The dead baby issue might, as you say, come under 'good taste' or offensive to the public laws
Where as the freedom of speech and the racial issue is different in the main because of criminal law.
So how can freedom of speech be accommodated while safeguarding people rights not to offended or racially abused ?
It would seem the only way this could be dealt with is in a case by case measure and/or by society conscience!
Not that many years ago drink driving was considered a non-crime by most of society, but now in the main society sees it as unacceptable...the conscience of society has changed!
Of course everybody has the choice to offend and break the law and most know there may be consequences for such actions.
The laws or society's unofficial restrictions does not actually stop people breaking or ignoring these things. There would seem to be a self-restrictive pale and any going beyond that do so knowingly.
Should they have that choice? Well thats a different question!
2:48am Mon 6 Aug 12
emcee says...
The internet is full of offensive material, nutters and generally nasty people. However, this is only a representation of how the human race really is. Just because it is on the internet does not make it any worse, especially if there are many ways to avoid such content. For Stacey Butler, I have a radical suggestion on how this facebook page may stop causing offence to you and I believe it may just work.
IGNORE IT and DO NOT GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO VIEW IT. There, easy wasn't it?
Also, if you do not like Facebook policies I have another suggestion that may ease your anguish. CLOSE YOUR FACEBOOK ACCOUNT. See how easy life can be when you put your mind to it.
6:40am Mon 6 Aug 12
152 says...
8:27am Mon 6 Aug 12
rich.carol says...
9:11am Mon 6 Aug 12
R85 says...
In a free country you should be able to say what you want, if you don’t like it don’t read or listen!
9:35am Mon 6 Aug 12
andy:) says...
I use FB a lot and have never seen the page, been made aware of it or even knew of its exitsence..untill the Echo story.
If you dont like it, dont look !
9:45am Mon 6 Aug 12
rich.carol says...
10:04am Mon 6 Aug 12
R85 says...
10:04am Mon 6 Aug 12
meldrew84 says...
It's not the fact the page exists that bothers me, cos I don't have to look, what bothers me is the fact these sick individuals are being given some "right" to have this page which is intended to offend people, when other people are not allowed to do the same. So are we saying the offence caused from the subject of racism, naked old women, athletes dead dads and fabrice muamba is of higher importance than the offence to caused to grieving to parents?!? Where do we draw the line.... Can't make one rule for racists and another for someone who causes the same offence and misery by picking on a parents grief!
Lets face it, if the page was called "dead BLACK baby jokes" it would have been removed long ago.......
10:28am Mon 6 Aug 12
R85 says...
As I understand it, as long as they’re not doing that then its OK. The jokes on pages like that do not target a grieving parent’s dead child; they make general, non-specific jokes about the general idea of it!
10:31am Mon 6 Aug 12
rich.carol says...
11:05am Mon 6 Aug 12
R85 says...
All you ever hear at my place of employment is complaining too – so fkin negative it drives me crazy! They’ve never heard of the phrase half-full!
Honestly it’s not like this in the states (from my experience). OK maybe it’s a litigation nation but for a reason – they don’t complain about every last, tiny, trivial, thing down to the nth degree like they do here (I’m saying USA, as I have spent a lot of time there and have spent a lot of time with the people). I’d assume other nations, apart from the USA, complain less than us too! The difference is glaring after immediately coming back from the states!
11:21am Mon 6 Aug 12
meldrew84 says...
And how can "freedom of speech" be confined by fact or person, if freedom is freedom then surely there is no limit on its scope, or it wouldn't really be freedom.
And most of the jokes are largely based on fact, it's fact that babies die and parents are left bereft, it was also fact when they posted numerous jokes about baby p and other victims of child abuse. So again, it should be no more acceptable to arrest people for a joke towards a single person than it is to arrest them for jokes about a general group of people and their grief.
11:40am Mon 6 Aug 12
AndyBSG says...
What they are posting is not illegal and it's not unsolicited as you have to agree to join the group and the title explains exactly what it's about.
I find jokes about the Welsh's relationships with sheep offensive so should all references to that sort of thing be struck from the internet?
Political correctness gone mad in a world of bleeding heart liberals springs to mind.
1:27pm Mon 6 Aug 12
John the resonator says...
I don't have a problem with adults accessing this stuff per se although I would find dead baby jokes personally offensive (and on that expectation would not have accessed the page if I had a FB account).
I have the vaguest knowledge of Jimmy Carr so I am the wrong person to ask. Now you have alerted me to what some of his material contains I can vote with my feet.
2:10pm Mon 6 Aug 12
EastStBoy says...
There's no reason at all why you cant click on the X on a certain news feed article and block it from ever appearing again.
Good luck trying to censor the internet for you if you cant be bothered to do it yourself.
6:18pm Mon 6 Aug 12
rich.carol says...
I enjoy all religious jokes black jokes, Irish, Chinese, Jewish, Pakistani, Catholic, Christain, KKK, rednecks and nationality jokes. I am not a prude to jokes about sex with swear words as a swear word is just a word. I like fat jokes, thin jokes, ugly and ginger jokes, lesbian and homosexual jokes. I like Les Dawsons mother in law jokes and the list goes on. I like Roy chubby Brown, loved Bernard Manning, Dick Emery and life jokers are funny if you are sensible enough to take them as a JOKE and nothing racist. Jimmy Jones.. Alf Garnett tv till death, love thy neighbour, mind your language, little Britain, as these to me were funny shows and funny people. Some people think they were racist’s shows and comedians, but I see through them and see the funny side. I have the choice to watch them or not, my choice. If people want to view sick baby dead jokes then that’s their choice but not for me and I would not sign up to view them. We all have a choice on TV and we all have a remote control to turn over our 200 channel choices. We all have a choice with our computers where we click on to. Why did this woman sign up to receive dead baby jokes and why didn’t click NO THANK YOU ?
7:23am Tue 7 Aug 12
Blind Haze says...
Any Viz readers out there? If so, she reminds me of 'Meddlesome Ratbag'.
8:48am Tue 7 Aug 12
PJR-121 says...
But one point everyone has missed (sorry if someone has already said this!) - how many people would know about it if this article had not been printed?
How many people have posted on FB, stating something along the lines of "there's a group called Dead Baby jokes, it's so sick, avoid it" - that goes to their hundreds of friends, and their friends comment their disgust, and their friends see it, comment, etc etc.
Then a woman runs to the papers, and it's a local story, which could even go national.
Now if everyone just ignored it - it'll die away quietly.
Did you know there are thousands of websites which glorify crime? People get together on community forums to brag about their latest wrecking sprees etc. Does anyone know any of them? No, the reason being no one has complained about them, run to papers, posted it on Facebook. Therefore, they have to be looked for, and many die away with no interest.
The problem is not just that this group exists, but that fuel is being added to its fire. This argument has already come up about several FB groups, and within a couple of weeks, it was all forgotten.
9:14am Tue 7 Aug 12
MaddieBlue says...
9:46am Tue 7 Aug 12
APR says...
10:23am Tue 7 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
1:44pm Tue 7 Aug 12
tinyone says...
Now if my friend hadnt of done that, then I, along with the rest of their friends, wouldnt have seen this page and known of its existence. I personally didnt look at the page as saw the name an knew that it wasnt going to be pleasant - my choice. Once this happened a good few of my mutual friends with the original friend commented etc which meant all their friends are made aware of the page and so on and so on, so it is people who are so disgusted with the page basicially advertising it to everyone and their aunt.
Plus, the people, usually bored school kids having a 'laugh', get off on all the comments from people who disapprove. If you dont like it, just report the page, dont comment or discuss it on your own facebook as this is what they want! Like someone has said above, just ignore it and it will slowly die because it wont be getting the attention it craves!
4:01pm Tue 7 Aug 12
TheGoodShipOutrage says...
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9:45pm Tue 7 Aug 12
blaireau says...
9:49pm Tue 7 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
11:11pm Tue 7 Aug 12
emcee says...
Sorry wrong site.
11:17pm Tue 7 Aug 12
jackdt09 says...
What is the difference between one of these jokes, which is what they are, and say someone like Jimmy Carr or Frankie Boyle making a joke about rape? If you are offended, don't tune in.
Most jokes are offensive to someone. I just watched Jack Whitehall on Michael Macintyre's Comedy Road Show mocking French people. I was sitting here laughing my head off. However, I bet it would be offensive to some French people. No different to any other offensive joke, just different topic.
Don't like, don't watch/read!
11:35pm Tue 7 Aug 12
Louisexmorganx says...
11:41pm Tue 7 Aug 12
Louisexmorganx says...
11:49pm Tue 7 Aug 12
Louisexmorganx says...
11:50pm Tue 7 Aug 12
E-Types.. says...
11:57pm Tue 7 Aug 12
Louisexmorganx says...
12:04am Wed 8 Aug 12
Cazzle says...
9:39am Wed 8 Aug 12
EastStBoy says...
If your friends are "liking" this page, then perhaps you should review what you see from your Friend's Facebook feed? Even better, review who are actually your friends on Facebook?
Again, it comes down to your use of Facebook.
If you cannot use Facebook properly, dont use it.
Anyone who complains about being force fed seeing such news feeds are showing a surprising amount of ignorace.
9:39am Wed 8 Aug 12
EastStBoy says...
9:47am Wed 8 Aug 12
APR says...
How many others knew about it ?
It seems like this woman has done a great promotion for it.
I'm glad I don't do FB.
9:49am Wed 8 Aug 12
APR says...
10:16am Wed 8 Aug 12
PJR-121 says...
People should just leave it alone, all this attention it is getting is playing into the hands of it's creators. Ignore a group you don't like on Facebook, and no one else hears about it - like people have said, if your friends go into it for whatever reason, it comes up on your suggestions, on your feed. If they'd left alone, no matter how good their intentions, it would have died a death by now
10:40am Wed 8 Aug 12
PJR-121 says...
11:12am Wed 8 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
12:25pm Wed 8 Aug 12
Cazzle says...
12:27pm Wed 8 Aug 12
Cazzle says...
12:31pm Wed 8 Aug 12
Cazzle says...
12:37pm Wed 8 Aug 12
tinyone says...
The reason it is still going so strong is because people like yourself and the women who this article is about are making such a big deal about it and they are getting the attention they are craving. I doubt very much this is linked to any sort of pedophile ring, it is more likely to be like all the other 'trolling' pages on facebook which tend to me bored teenagers - have you not noticed that this has all come to light during the school summer holidays!
Just ignore the page, dont give it any attention and they will soon get bored and people will forget about its existence and it will eventually die the miserable death it deserves.
I dont understand how people do not realise that this sort of attention is what these people want and you are just adding fuel to their sick and twisted fire!
12:40pm Wed 8 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
12:43pm Wed 8 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
12:57pm Wed 8 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
12:59pm Wed 8 Aug 12
rjsizzler says...
If you are offended by this, as any normal person would be, then don't go looking for it.
If people you are friends with on facebook are liking it and therefore it is appearing on your feed, then talk to your 'friends' about that.
The internet is ugly, but thankfully it's pretty easy to not look at things you don't want to see.
Don't go looking for it so you can complain - you'll get nowhere.
1:41pm Wed 8 Aug 12
jackdt09 says...
Read my post again you cretin. I was talking about offence generally, not mocking someone's grief.
The jokes are hypothetical, or should be. Anyone posting a joke aimed at an actual case of infant death are sick, however, that's not what the group intends. Whether someone finds it amusing or not is irrelevant to my argument, but a joke referring to dead babies generally, although not funny in my book, is very similar to a Jimmy Carr rape joke for example. Its certainly not going to be funny to someone who has been raped, but if you choose to read something or go to a comedy gig, don't complain after.
Try reading the context of a post before criticising it.
My point was that if you are likely to find something offensive, don't read it.
11:38pm Wed 8 Aug 12
The Jak says...
How about parents control their children and monitor what they view on the Internet. You wouldn't allow them to go out and read any magazine out there, or watch any film in the cinema. There's nobody trying to ban films from the cinema, because children aren't going to watch it. How about parents take some responsibility for what their children view and actually do their jobs so I can enjoy the Internet without having somebody trying to tell me what I can and can't view on it.
If you have a problem with the page, stay away. Im not a fan of the humour on that page, but I know plenty of people who would be. I really like reading about trains and such. What if people were trying to infringe on my right to read about trains because it was against the morals of the majority? That's exactly the same thing as here. The page has done nothing wrong other than post crude humour. Perfectly in their rights. Just because some don't agree with the humour present doesn't give you the right to see to it that's banned. If we ban things like this we're going to end up in a totalitarian state where nobody can state their mind, and nobody can enjoy anything that's against the public ethos.
I don't mind the page, nobody else should mind the page. Yes, you can be disgusted, but your disgust at the jokes on show doesn't mean that the people contributing are doing anything to break the law? Why do you think the page is still there after countless reports? Because its not spreading hate, it's simply catering for the humour of a group of people, just like thousands of other web pages across the Internet. People have the right to say what they want in the free world. How does the famous saying go again? "I abhor what you say but will fight to might death to defend your right to say it.
9:11am Thu 9 Aug 12
R85 says...
9:20am Thu 9 Aug 12
R85 says...
Completely separately to that I do personally think the idea of generalised anything is OK, so long as it doesn’t target anyone specifically! I truly despise political correctness and therefore anything truly fct up is a breath of fresh air in this country where you can’t walk down the street without being branded a racist or something else! I’m sure anybody posting on that site would be truly horrified and distraught were they to actually encounter a dead baby! A joke is a joke, it is meant to shock, it is not meant to be believed in!
11:34am Thu 9 Aug 12
nuttynech says...
11:37am Thu 9 Aug 12
nuttynech says...
11:37am Thu 9 Aug 12
nuttynech says...
12:21pm Thu 9 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
12:30pm Thu 9 Aug 12
PJR-121 says...
You have the power to ignore it and it will die away quietly. You can't change the opinons of people who like this so why bother? They are free to like what they like, you are free to like what you like. As long as they are not forcing their beliefs on you, you can't honestly try to force yours on theirs.
Ignore it, and it will die into the back catalogue of Facebook, visited only by those who want to find it. By making such a fuss, it's going to be looked at by more people who want to see what this is all about - which then spreads it further through their friends and so on.
Sometimes, being rightous and sticking to your beliefs, while good, can be the wrong thing to do.
12:38pm Thu 9 Aug 12
tinyone says...
I know, in a lot of lifes situations, jokes can be funny, however the death of a child, which has been experienced by any parent, mother or father, could never be funny.
To be fair, if there are people posting on that page to say they are a mother who has lost a child and using the page as a coping mechanism (I cant confirm if this is true as I have never looked at the page's content) is probably more fake accounts and are as sick as some of the individuals posting images of dead babies etc.
12:44pm Thu 9 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
Like I keep iterating, humour is subjective and what people to do to cope is up to them. Whether you agree or not is a different matter. Just because you have the opinion that it is wrong does not mean they share the same opinion as you.
Also jumping to conclusions about what the mother is like a person based solely on they sense of humour is dangerous and narrow minded.
12:59pm Thu 9 Aug 12
tinyone says...
Narrow minded, maybe, but I would like to think that the majority of people who have lost a child would never find any humor from that situation. I lost my mother when I was just 3 years old, I would never find a joke regarding that circumstance funny, however jokes about fat mums and things along those lines, (I personally dont roll around the floor laughing), can see the funny side. However a joke about a dead baby when experiencing that loss, I just cant fathom how they would find a place within their heart to laugh or even crack a smile.
I am not a parent, so maybe I cant relate to it, but I can guarantee I would not find images of dead babies, jokes about a fellow parents who have lost a child or children, funny in the slightest.
As you say my opinion and I will sure as hell stick by it.
1:17pm Thu 9 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
I am new parent myself and whilst the thought of losing my daughter is unfathomable I can still appreciate the 'dark' humour for what it is. I personally know people who have been in that situation and can still appreciate the jokes, That doesn't make them a bad person. It is not like the day after you go around their house and start reeling off dead baby jokes but I know people who have accepted their loss and have moved on with their lives and do not find these jokes offensive (as they do not attack them personally) and have a laugh at the jokes themselves. The humour comes from the shock factor, "I can't believe you said that" kinda thing, very much like comedians Franky Boyle, Jimmy Carr, Roy Chubby Brown etc. who do use material like this. Understandable it is not to everyone's taste however, and people are free to express their disapproval of them just as people are free to tell the jokes in the first place.
1:28pm Thu 9 Aug 12
tinyone says...
I have never heard any of the mentioned comedians use any jokes about dead babies. Babies/children who have illnesses, deformed etc, all things close to the mark, but I have never come across one which is about a dead baby. Maybe I haven't seen enough of their material. So feel free to correct me. I am going to see Franky Boyle in October, so maybe I will listen out for one and see if I do laugh or not.
I am one for all un PC jokes and I do tend to laugh at anything which is even the tiniest bit funny, but I think dead babies would seriously draw the line. Possibly because I have too much empathy to 'appreciate' such jokes.
1:52pm Thu 9 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
Jimmy Carr has certainly used similar material and I know Franky Boyle got himself into trouble for making comments about Jordan's disabled child. Whether this is worse than a joke about a fictitious dead baby is another debate in it itself. Chubby Brown was more of a sexist and disabled joke kind of person but some people find him offensive. Again, whether a joke about a real disabled person is worse than a fictitious dead entity is up for debate and a matter of opinion.
I personally find the page entertaining, not because of the jokes but because of the people hating the page constructing arguments unsuccessfully and looking like idiots. Comments like "OMG ur sooo sck, get off fb now. Hope ur kidz die in a fire" is so hypocritical I can do nothing but laugh. I had to laugh when Strathclyde police had to shut down their facebook messaging because they were swamped with complaints by people being offended on facebook. To think you can get a police force in Scotland who have no jurisdiction over the site based in America to do any more than ask facebook nicely to take it down is laughable. People were then having a go at the Strathclyde police department for not doing their job!
1:53pm Thu 9 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
1:58pm Thu 9 Aug 12
tinyone says...
As the meerkat would say - SIMPLES!
2:04pm Thu 9 Aug 12
r6keith says...
2:09pm Thu 9 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
2:40pm Thu 9 Aug 12
Cazzle says...
2:44pm Thu 9 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
2:47pm Thu 9 Aug 12
tinyone says...
From what I have read on here and have heard, it is not the page on facebook that is publishing the jokes, it is other individuals posting the jokes on that page, so it is those individuals that should be reported and may then be banned/removed from facebook.
I feel I used the word individual too many times.... sorry!
2:52pm Thu 9 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
2:58pm Thu 9 Aug 12
Blind Haze says...
2:58pm Thu 9 Aug 12
tinyone says...
As much as I disagree with the humor used on the page, I understand exactly everyone's argument on how the page shouldnt be banned. I very much think it is in bad taste and I do not condone it at all, however the page itself is not to blame, it is the people posting to it.
And again, I will say, if you dont like it, as I dont, DONT LOOK AT THE PAGE AND READ THE 'JOKES' then you wont be horrified by the content! Its not difficult ;)
2:59pm Thu 9 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
3:01pm Thu 9 Aug 12
tinyone says...
3:01pm Thu 9 Aug 12
Blind Haze says...
3:07pm Thu 9 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
I assumed by your comment that you are implying that the page is encouraging people to commit a crime, which it is not. It is there to share jokes, which last time I checked, wasn't a crime.
3:14pm Thu 9 Aug 12
Blind Haze says...
As you said, posting jokes isn't a crime so why are you comparing illegal activities with legal activities and condoning it by saying you'd get arrested for one but not the other? It makes for a terrible simile.
3:21pm Thu 9 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
1) The coffee shop owner is comparable the page, not encouraging any illegal activity etc.
2) Illegal activity occurs in the shop (i.e. the page) for instance some individual harassing another
3) The individual has action taken against him not the owner.
The page is not at fault and is not encouraging any sort of illegal activity. If individuals decide to break the rules then they are dealt with accordingly.
Seems pretty clear to me.
3:25pm Thu 9 Aug 12
Blind Haze says...
Why did you bring illegal activities into into this - the 2 scenarios are completely incomparable.
3:29pm Thu 9 Aug 12
NeoMag says...
5:35pm Thu 9 Aug 12
Sean4u says...
your
web
developer
consider
doing
something
about
the
right
margin
on
blockquote?
Some
of
the
threads
above
are
unreadable!
7:22pm Thu 9 Aug 12
APR says...
1:18pm Fri 10 Aug 12
sav25 says...
1:19pm Sun 12 Aug 12
Cazzle says...
5:47am Fri 17 Aug 12
Blenko says...
7:26pm Sun 19 Aug 12
Frankiii says...
9:20pm Mon 20 Aug 12
v.randy says...
If you do then expect a % of them to enjoy the chance to hide facelessly behind their fake names and post vile comments..it;s so easy..you don't even need a stamp.
Clearly to many people in this country are hooked on FB and it aint healthy.Close your accounts and meet real people it might surprise you how rewarding real life is.