Canvey man is now conscious but in a persistent vegetative state

Before - Paul Ayling in good health Before - Paul Ayling in good health

THE family of a Canvey man who was left in a coma after being brutally attacked in Thailand has been told he may never lead a normal life again.

Paul Ayling, 47, was hit over the head with a lump of wood by one of two men who jumped him in Hua Hin, Thailand, on November 21 last year.

The attack left Mr Ayling, who lived on Canvey for more than 30 years, with severe brain damage and sent him into a five- month coma.

Although now conscious, doctors have declared Mr Ayling as being in a persistent vegetative state, after three months of neurological tests. This means although he is awake, Mr Ayling is unaware of anything going on around him.

Specialists at Harrow’s Northwick Park Hospital also believe he could be both blind and deaf.

The heartbreaking news has devastated family members who had hoped Paul could one day return to a normal life.

His brother Tony, 51, who lives in Yorkshire, said: “It is not what we were hoping for at all.

“Our hopes of him coming out of the coma and leading as normal a life as possible have lessened.

“We just don’t know how much of the Paul we know is still in there.”

If his situation stays the same for more than 12 months, Mr Ayling would then be classified as being in a permanent vegetative state, meaning it is impossible by any informed medical expectations that his mental condition would ever improve.

Tony said: “Basically his body is just doing enough to keep itself alive.

“His eyes are open, but it doesn’t appear that he is aware of anything. I don’t really know what is worse, him being in a coma, or in this vegetative state.

“We are just hoping he comes out of this soon.

“You do hear of medical cases where people recover.”

Mr Ayling only emigrated to Thailand with his wife Justine and nine-year-old son Scott last year.

He endured three operations in Thailand, which reduced swelling on his brain and removed blood clots. Mr Ayling was then flown back to Britain and treated in Southend Hospital, in March, before he was transferred to Northwick Park, in April.

Tony added: “We are now hoping to get him moved to a care home in Essex, so that he can be closer to his wife and son and well looked after.”

Family members have become increasingly frustrated with Thailand’s police investigation into the attack on Mr Ayling and are battling to secure justice for him.

His attacker has never been found. Anyone who might be able to help is asked to e-mail anitaayling@hotmail.com

Comments (5)

2:10pm Mon 18 Jun 12

ducky18 says...

Oh, that's such terrible news. I wish him all the luck in the world and the family too. x
Oh, that's such terrible news. I wish him all the luck in the world and the family too. x ducky18

3:51pm Mon 18 Jun 12

Alan Jacobs says...

This is absolutely terrible.

I hope that someone from my family would do something to hasten my demise if I ever ended up in a dreadful situation like this.
This is absolutely terrible. I hope that someone from my family would do something to hasten my demise if I ever ended up in a dreadful situation like this. Alan Jacobs

6:36pm Mon 18 Jun 12

UK Fan says...

The best thing we can do is to wish him and his family the best of luck for the future. A terrible tragedy.

Unfortunately, there is little hope of the attacker ever being caught. The police force in some countries is chronically understaffed and underpaid, often making it a case for outright bribery, Kenya where we lived for long years would be a case in point.

But one must never give up hope.
The best thing we can do is to wish him and his family the best of luck for the future. A terrible tragedy. Unfortunately, there is little hope of the attacker ever being caught. The police force in some countries is chronically understaffed and underpaid, often making it a case for outright bribery, Kenya where we lived for long years would be a case in point. But one must never give up hope. UK Fan

6:37pm Mon 18 Jun 12

Terry2says says...

What a terrible story. Been to Thailand many times and never seen any problems. Hua Hin is a nice resort. We wish all the family good luck for the future.
What a terrible story. Been to Thailand many times and never seen any problems. Hua Hin is a nice resort. We wish all the family good luck for the future. Terry2says

7:07pm Mon 18 Jun 12

BIRLIS says...

Sad news. Unfortunately, looking at similar stories, it seems that despite Thailand's appearance to holiday makers it is not the place to get into a business dispute.
Sad news. Unfortunately, looking at similar stories, it seems that despite Thailand's appearance to holiday makers it is not the place to get into a business dispute. BIRLIS

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